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Danish filmmaker Lone Scherfig, the writer and director of the 12th Dogme 95 film, 2000's critically acclaimed Italian for Beginners, presents this comedy drama starring Jamie Sives and Adrian Rawlins... read more read more... as brothers Wilbur and Harbour. When their mother died early in their lives, it became up to Harbour to keep tabs on Wilbur, the younger and chronically depressed of the two siblings. Now in their thirties, their father has passed away, leaving them to take over the family's used book store. It is there that they encounter Alice (Shirley Henderson), a hospital janitor who sells the books that patients leave behind, and her young, optimistic daughter, Mary (Lisa McKinlay). Together, the four form a bond that changes each of their lives, with Harbour falling in love with Alice and Mary's sunny demeanor giving the suicidal Wilbur a reason to live. The first English-language effort from Scherfig, Wilbur Wants to Kill Himself was nominated for best film at Denmark's 2003 Bodil Awards. ~ Matthew Tobey, Rovi

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R, 1 hr. 46 min.

Directed by: Lone Scherfig

Release Date: March 12, 2004

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DVD Release Date: December 28, 2004

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  • August 20, 2011
    Mixed feelings on this one. On one hand, very original story and well cast (even Shirley Henderson is very good here. Not nearly as "screetchy" as normal - I am sure she puts that voice on!), also quite funny in a dark way thanks to Julia Davis (I can never take her seriously. ... read more I just see Jill from NIghty Night whenever I see her!).
    There was just something about the story itself that didn't sit quite right with me. It seemed horrible for Wilbur and Alice to be carrying on behind Harbour's back, and then the final scene seemed disrespectful to Harbour. I don't want to spell it all out and ruin it for those who have not seen this, but those who have will know what I mean. Perhaps I am missing the point, I am not sure...
  • May 4, 2011
    There is something very disjointed about Wilbur Wants to Kill Himself. It almost feels as if it is in a timeless no mans land, void of any distractions or indeed the outside world. Maybe that's why it works so well. The Danes don't half make some great films, Lone Scherfig ticks ... read moreall the boxes a director should as far as I'm concerned, always giving us something new but never breaking free from the confinements of reality. The acting is good, particularly from Adrian Rawlins who really plays his part as the 'glue' of the story well. I'm always a bit weary of sensationalist titles but don't let it put you off, this is a great little film.
  • April 5, 2007
    One of the most bizarre films I have ever seen. Not that it's surreal per se, just... very odd. It's touching, well acted, nicely scored, but it's also all over the place and if there was a point to be made - and it felt like there shold be - I didn't get it. Unless it's that sui... read morecide is bad.
  • May 11, 2012
    The movie's subject matter is very dark and downbeat, but somehow the director manages to make a romantic comedy out of it. As bizarre as it may sound, it actually works. There were several scenes where I wanted to cry and laugh at the same time... I guess that's the idea of a bl... read moreack comedy.
  • October 22, 2009
    the brothers of opposite characters live same life with all it's troubles and miracles. But show different reactions. And trying to fill the gaps in their lives. An emotional and a funny movie that makes me lol several times. But the story is too slow and to far from being fascin... read moreating. But wort watching.

Critic Reviews


Roger Moore
May 21, 2004
Roger Moore, Orlando Sentinel

Pretty enjoyable. Full Review

Bob Longino
May 13, 2004
Bob Longino, Atlanta Journal-Constitution

Wilbur has the ability to suck you in, to make you cheer on the strangest of indulgent families. Full Review

Joe Baltake
May 7, 2004
Joe Baltake, Sacramento Bee

This is one special movie. Full Review

Tom Long
May 7, 2004
Tom Long, Detroit News

Worth seeing.

John Monaghan
May 7, 2004
John Monaghan, Detroit Free Press

Though Scherfig is still partially enrolled in the Dogme school, her movie finds a happy balance with its equally adept eye for wide-screen composition and the raw complexity of real human emotion.

Roger Ebert
April 30, 2004
Roger Ebert, Chicago Sun-Times

Here is a movie that appeals to the heart while not insulting the mind or forgetting how delightful its characters are. Full Review

Steven Rea
April 29, 2004
Steven Rea, Philadelphia Inquirer

A poignant, death-tinged comedy.

Colin Covert
April 29, 2004
Colin Covert, Minneapolis Star Tribune

A charming, life-affirming gem. Full Review

Robert K. Elder
April 29, 2004
Robert K. Elder, Chicago Tribune

A very good, offbeat movie with a very bad, offbeat title. Full Review

Eric Harrison
April 22, 2004
Eric Harrison, Houston Chronicle

Thanks in part to the performances and director Lone Scherfig's restrained direction, it remains engaging to the last scene. Full Review

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