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Nicholas Hytner (The Crucible) directed this Wendy Wasserstein screenplay, adapted from Stephen McCauley's novel, about the romantic mismatch of a gay man and a young pregnant woman. When literary age... read more read more...nt Sidney Miller (Alan Alda) and his wife Constance (Allison Janney) have a dinner party, Constance's social-worker stepsister Nina Borowski (Jennifer Aniston) attends without her lawyer boyfriend Vince McBride (John Pankow). Also present are gay schoolteacher George Hanson (Paul Rudd) and his lover, Dr. Robert Joley (Tim Daly). George learns from Nina that he's being dumped by Robert, a scene ensues, and Nina then invites George to stay in the spare room of her Brooklyn apartment. Nina still has sex with boyfriend Vince, but during late-night talks, she begins to bond with her gay roommate. Nina and George take dance lessons at the local senior citizen's community center, and Gershwin's "You Were Meant for Me" sets the tone for romance as the two become soul mates. Unfortunately, shortly after their love blooms, Nina learns she's pregnant by Vince, who is no longer the object of her affections. Instead of telling the unwanted Vince right away, Nina asks George to join her in raising the child. George stays on, but in the months that follow, he also begins to see men again. Robert takes him along to a Connecticut conference where drama critic Rodney Fraser (Nigel Hawthorne) has Paul James (Amo Gulinello) in tow. George and Paul have an instant attraction, and this prompts everyone involved to reassess their emotional commitments. ~ Bhob Stewart, Rovi

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DVD Release Date: January 8, 2002

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  • January 8, 2008
    This glossy, unusual romantic comedy is great with the appealling cast including Jennifer Aniston and Paul Rudd.
  • May 21, 2007
    A pretty good movie, though I did feel a bit disappointed in the end but it was the proper way to end it I suppose. Good to watch if you're in the mood for something emotional I suppose.
  • May 29, 2006
    What starts out as a fairly basic story turns into a complex love story and then ends up as a mess.
  • August 6, 2007
    Cool movie.
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    February 9, 2012
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    Interesting topic, kinda a love it or hate it film. It's really cute and Aniston's performance was great. It's just a cute little film to watch. The reference to singing in the rain blew me away!!!!! I love it
  • October 30, 2008
    I'm a sucker for Paul Rudd. And romcoms. And films which star Friends alumni.
  • February 22, 2008
    i make a habit of seein anything starring paul rudd i find him hilarious, an alright movie
  • April 12, 2007
    A favorite.
  • December 27, 2010
    A love story that could only happen between best friends.

    Sometimes the most Desirable Relationship is the one you can't have.

    play a girl who falls in love with gay guy.
  • August 16, 2010
    It's a cute enough RomCom with a rather interesting and uncommon end-twist (though the majority of the plotline's near incredulous) - but the film's best recommendation is that it yields up numerous small and subtle glimpses of Aniston successfully breaking away from her Rachel G... read morereen stereotype.

    The year prior to this film, in "Picture Perfect" (1997), Aniston essentially reprised her one-note Rachel persona. And it wasn't until four years after this film, in "The Good Girl" (2002), that viewers finally see Aniston deliver strongly in a role that vastly differs from Rachel.

    Before "Good Girl," many "Friends" viewers likely assumed Aniston was actually quite like Rachel, a subtle testimony to the quality of Aniston's ability. Here in this film, astute viewers would have seen it coming, that Aniston > Rachel. Aniston here delivers certain lines/scenes where her character isn't anywhere akin to the more superficial Rachel - a Nina who is truly distraught, truly cold-hearted and sharp-tongued, truly confused and torn.

    Unlike "Picture Perfect," where Aniston had to share the limelight with an endearing performance by Jay Mohr as her love interest, Aniston owns this film lock, stock and barrel. Most of the time where she's paired-up with, and pining away for, the gay-thus-unattainable Paul Rudd, he's so awe-struck and over-shadowed by her half of the work, he looks as though he's a deer caught in headlights.

    Most of the other deliveries are all but forgettable; veteran Alan Alda guffaws his way through most of his little bits, adding little - and almost looking the buffoon.

    RECOMMENDATION: RomCom fans will enjoy the film for what it is at face-value, but it's this first slow reveal of Aniston's true range that makes for the more interesting viewing.

Critic Reviews


Todd McCarthy
March 26, 2009
Todd McCarthy, Variety

The plot's hokey contrivances and the theatrical shtick tend to prevail over the sporadic moments of insight and emotional truth. Full Review

Ruthe Stein
June 18, 2002
Ruthe Stein, San Francisco Chronicle

The best romantic comedy so far this year. Full Review

Janet Maslin
January 1, 2000
Janet Maslin, New York Times

This comedy is content to enjoy the beguiling antics of Ms. Aniston, who is as skillful here as she is miscast, and to let its colorful minor characters give it a sitcom spin. Full Review

Roger Ebert
January 1, 2000
Roger Ebert, Chicago Sun-Times

There is a movie fighting to get out of The Object of My Affection, and I like it better than the movie it's trapped in. Full Review

David Denby
January 1, 2000
David Denby, New York Magazine

Paul Rudd is charming, and some of the scenes are intelligently written and played, but at a recent screening people on all sides of me were squirming in discomfort. Full Review

James Berardinelli
January 1, 2000
James Berardinelli, ReelViews

While some of the solutions are a little facile, the film nevertheless succeeds, due in large part to a luminous performance by Jennifer Aniston... Full Review

January 26, 2006
Time Out

It never persuades you it belongs on the big screen. Full Review

Robin Clifford
April 9, 2005
Robin Clifford, Reeling Reviews

The Object of My Affection is one of the best romantic comedies I've seen in ages. Full Review

Philip Martin
January 29, 2005
Philip Martin, Arkansas Democrat-Gazette

At the core... is the college dorm debate question: Can a man and a woman live and love together without sex? The answers ... in a typical dorm room are ... as interesting... Full Review

John R. McEwen
February 8, 2003
John R. McEwen, Film Quips Online

This is a tale of difficult choices and wistful decisions, of trying to choose between two types of love when only one is possible. It is touching without being sappy, and beautifully photographed. Full Review

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