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A woman realizes that friends can be lovers, but now has to convince the friend in question in this romantic comedy. Michael O'Neal (Dermot Mulroney) and Julianne Potter (Julia Roberts) were romantica... read more read more...lly involved in college, and after breaking up, they have managed to remain close friends. For years, Julianne and Michael have had a pledge that if both were single when they turned 28, they would get married. Shortly before her 28th birthday, Julianne is lamenting the sad state of her love life when she gets a call from Michael, who announces that he has important news. Julianne is convinced that Michael is going to ask her to marry him, and she is crestfallen when he announces that he's engaged to Kimmy Wallace (Cameron Diaz). Kimmy seems like the perfect woman for Michael; she's sweet, pretty, bright, and adores Michael, and her wealthy family is just as fond of him as she is. But now that Julianne has realized how much she loves Michael, she's not about to give him up without a fight -- and isn't afraid to fight dirty. Julianne's uneasy ally in the battle for Michael's affections is her friend and editor George Downes (Rupert Everett), a cheerfully out-of-the-closet homosexual who is not prepared when Julianne asks him to pose as her boyfriend. ~ Mark Deming, Rovi

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DVD Release Date: December 9, 1997

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  • July 4, 2011
    What's interesting here is that Roberts, the ex-girlfriend (at the wedding only to break it up), is someone smart, charming and "totally above such drama". We find out as she does (ala the screwball comedies of old) just how far she'll go to achieve her will ... and she's suppos... read moreedly "not like that at all". Maybe she's driven to it as this is one of those films where folks break out into popular song whenever and so one can sympathize with her temporary insanity in this funny crowd pleaser from the good ol'days of 1997.
  • June 24, 2011
    A classic! A must see!
  • June 20, 2010
    i watched lots of 90s chic flicks during adolescence due to my sister, and "my best friend's wedding" is one of them...even now i still think it's probably one of the best chick flicks ever in the history of motion pictures even personally i cannot identify with any of those char... read moreacters in this movie.(east-coast wasp with too much money and leisure time to dream their mr. right) sometimes i feel it's more fun to watch that kind of picture when you were 16 viewing the life of 28..when you're 27 and almost ready to be 28 next year, everything in this movie appears so unrealisticly cinderellaesque. but the nice thing about this movie is the fact that even cinderella has her downs and irreparable failures.

    female vanity and paranoic persistence are all rendered well by julia roberts and cameron diaz. one is a woman who is too popular to accept a slip of failure; the other is too naively shrewd to let her beau flee. sometimes that makes you wonder that woman could be like man, who only cherishes his object of affection/desire only when there's some competition going on, like a trophy to assert your pride. it's just female feud is more tenderized and injected with some deeply immersed sentimentality, more apologetically sugar-coated since woman has to pardon herself with some excuse she cannot help.

    why it doesn't occur to any of these two female leads that you could just walk away and find another man to start anew since you have wealth, looks and social status(good job, well-reputed family)? i suppose if any woman thinks like that in those movies, there won't be any chick flick made. sometimes i feel there's some unspoken complicity in this genre to vie for the favors of men.

    anyway, the soundtrack is cozily sweet and very fit to the story backset.(one of the best romantic soundtracks) clothes look lovely and those women look modern but also quite elegant. the story has enough dramatic tension, and sometimes it could be touching, especially the boat speech dermot mulroney makes "if you love someone, you must tell right away or that person would never know" along with the melody of "the way you look tonight"(even life is never simplified as THAT)....actually the best fun is to watch julia roberts make a clumsy fool of herself by taking a nosedive while cameron diaz keeps getting on her nerve with her reckless perfectionist demeanors. that hostility could keep the viewer seated for a whole movie.

    if you wanna be politically sensitive, my best friend's wedding creates a certain typecasting for gay stud (rupert everette), assimilating gays into the mainstream niche of beautiful cosmopolitan woman's second-base substitute for temporal romance, that will later be in everette's movie with madonna and "sex and the city"...it dubs a user-friendly air over gay men in mainstream soapy movies. it's like the black nanny in "gone with the wind", and mainstream movies need that sort of fixed character to represent a certain group to disarm the potential threat to the central values. it's like saying "gee, he is gay but he's kinda harmless and he could be our best friend when we women cannot get a good man on our bed-side"...is it true or i over-speculate it? i do wonder.
  • March 15, 2010
    Julia Roberts was solid in the 90's, real solid.
  • October 2, 2009
    Absolutely fucking awful! Everyone who worked on this film should be ashamed of themselves!
  • August 1, 2009
    even though it makes use of a very tired old storyline of breaking someone elses wedding in order to go out with the guy yourself, it still works, somehow. julia roberts is fantastic as usual as well as cameron diaz basically being herself. rupert everett is the outstanding one i... read moren this.
  • April 7, 2009
    Pretty much the best thing about this movie was the ending. Enough said.
  • April 1, 2009
    actually solid romantic comedy with atypical ending for this sort of film. most guys may not like it but m kind of a sucker for julia roberts.
  • February 4, 2009
    Hilarious Chick Flick!
  • January 11, 2009
    Juliann (Julia) doesn't want to see her best friend Michael (Dermot) marry Kimmy (Cameron) as she is in love with him. She does everything she can to humiliate her love rival. I love the singing scenes. Rupert and Cameron are hilarious. Great cast and plot.

Critic Reviews


Owen Gleiberman
February 3, 2009
Owen Gleiberman, Entertainment Weekly

We don't feel much of anything. Full Review

Lisa Alspector
February 3, 2009
Lisa Alspector, Chicago Reader

The draggy narrative of this 1997 comedy is tough to sit through -- there are even several overproduced musical numbers -- but it does have an intriguing subversive element that I don't want to give a... Full Review

Leonard Klady
February 3, 2009
Leonard Klady, Variety

Anchored by skilled comedienne Julia Roberts, this skewered variation on jealousy and the wrong woman doing battle in the aisles is a winning balance of the familiar and the novel. Full Review

Rita Kempley
August 29, 2002
Rita Kempley, Washington Post

A misbegotten attempt to update the genre that only proves the enduring -- if not downright inviolable -- appeal of the boy-meets-girl scenario. Full Review

Ruthe Stein
June 18, 2002
Ruthe Stein, San Francisco Chronicle

[Julia Roberts] is at her vibrant best. Full Review

Rick Groen
April 12, 2002
Rick Groen, Globe and Mail

Every once in a long while, along comes a refreshing change like My Best Friend's Wedding, a movie whose appeal rests largely on its knack for defying our expectations by riffing off, even undermining... Full Review

Peter Travers
May 11, 2001
Peter Travers, Rolling Stone

Roberts puts her heart into this one. Audiences are likely to return the favor.

Kenneth Turan
February 14, 2001
Kenneth Turan, Los Angeles Times

My Best Friend's Wedding feels repetitive at times, but its star power and willingness to undercut convention come through at the end. Full Review

Stephen Hunter
January 1, 2000
Stephen Hunter, Washington Post

A romantic comedy conspicuously lacking either romance or comedy. Full Review

Susan Stark
January 1, 2000
Susan Stark, Detroit News

Emotionally, this is a movie that just doesn't compute. You leave feeling cross, as if you've been tricked. Full Review

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