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In this comedy from Austin Powers director Jay Roach, Ben Stiller plays a young man who endures a disastrous weekend at the home of his girlfriend's parents. Greg Focker (Stiller) is completely in lov... read more read more...e with Pam Byrnes (Teri Polo), and views their upcoming trip to her parents' house on Long Island (where her sister is to be married during the weekend) as a perfect opportunity to ask her to marry him. Once Greg is introduced to Pam's parents, however, things stampede steadily downhill. Pam's father, Jack (Robert De Niro), takes an instant and obvious dislike to his daughter's boyfriend, lambasting him for his job as a nurse and generally making Greg painfully aware of the differences between him and Pam's family. Where Greg is grubby, relatively unambitious, and Jewish, Pam comes from a long line of well-mannered, blue-blooded WASPs. Things go from bad to worse in less time than it takes to spin a dreidel, with Greg incurring the wrath of both Pam's father -- who, it turns out, worked for the CIA for 34 years -- and the rest of her family, and almost single-handedly destroying their house and the wedding in the process. ~ Rebecca Flint Marx, Rovi

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PG-13, 2 min.

Directed by: Jay Roach

Release Date: October 6, 2000

Keywords: funny, hilarious

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DVD Release Date: March 6, 2001

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  • March 10, 2012
    Uses very quiet like performances with hilarious outcomes. A different comedy that stands out amongst the toilet-slapstick-fart-joke movies that are coming out nowadays.
  • February 3, 2012
    I wish some of the slapstick gags were funnier than they were but there's no denying that as a whole, the movie was funny. DeNiro and Ben Stiller were absolutely flawless working with eachother and they had a lot of comedic charm. I do wish that it focused more on the laughs than... read more the sitcomish drama. It wasn't perfect but Meet the Parents deals with issues in a hilarious and equally energetic way.
  • December 13, 2011
    Very funny movie about a guy who meets his girlfriend's parents for the first time. Her dad is suspicious of him. Love Robert's character. Owen is great as the ex-boyfriend. Feel sorry for Ben, should have gone home earlier!
  • October 30, 2011
    This being the first installment it was actually funny, had some good gags and was worth watching, but I felt that some adjustments could have been made, casting in particular, and they should have made it so there could have never been any follow on's!
  • October 28, 2011
    A typical rom-com that's slightly ill-balanced between romance and comedy. Robert De Niro's performance seemed terribly odd to me. Thankfully, I don't have to say the same for the rest of the cast.
  • August 17, 2011
    Meet the Parents is one of the best comedies out there. The plot is how every guy feels when meeting his girlfriends parents, espically the father, and it really works because for Greg Focker nothing goes right on his trip. The cast was perfect, Stiller and DeNiro are hilarious... read more. This may have some of the greatest jokes in film history, its a laugh riot. I love this movie.
  • August 11, 2011
    MEET THE PARENTS, though a slapstick farce, has some kind of a feel-good sense to all of its jokes. Though the two sequels really aren't as funny and are truly more crude and gross (watch if you don't believe me; maybe not otherwise), this first entry has a good bit of heart in it.
  • July 30, 2011
    Jack Byrnes: You tried to milk him, didn't you you sick son of a bitch? 

    "First comes love. Then comes interrogation."

    Yeah, it may have been downhill from Meet The Parents on, but the first movie in the trilogy is one of the funniest movies of the first decade of the 21st cent... read moreury. The film is perfectly cast with Robert De Niro, Ben Stiller, Teri Polo and Owen Wilson in a great supporting role. The movie puts it's lead character, Gaylord Focker into many bad situations and let's him dig himself even deeper. 

    The movie is made up of great scene after great scene. I can't think of a part of the movie where I didn't laugh. From the first dinner with the Parents to the  pool volleyball game(funniest scene in the movie) to the final spy cam footage. It's a laugh-a-minute movie that doesn't use the typical raunchy sex and gross out humor. It's actually pretty mild with it's material. The situations are funny enough as they are. So, there's really no need to try to pull off some cheap laughs. 

    The story is about a male nurse who goes on a trip with his girlfriend. They go to her parents house where her sister is about to marries. Greg intends on asking Pam to marry him, but wants to ask her father for his permission first. That is until he finds out that Jack Byrnes is a total psycho and is hard pressed on Pam not being with Greg. The chemistry on screen is very good between the leads and none of the material comes off as forced, although, some of it easily could have.

    Meet The Parents is an extremely funny movie that I can watch multiple times. I still laugh as hard as I did the first time. It's a really fun movie.

    Jack Byrnes: Greg, nobody's expecting much out of you so if I set you up with the ball, you think you could jump up and spike it? 
    Greg Focker: Yeah. I'd have to be pretty high, but yeah. 
    Jack Byrnes: I bet you would, Panama Red. 
  • June 29, 2011
    When this film came out, I thought it was one of the funniest films that I had seen. The cast was great, and the film had plenty of funny moments. However the years have taken it's tole on Meet The Parents. The film is still a very funny comedy of course, but there's been lots mo... read morere funnier films that have come out in recent years. Meet The Parents is every son in law's nightmare, and the premise of the story is terrific. Ben Stiller plays Greg "Gaylord" Focker a practicing male nurse who endures a disastrous weekend with his girlfriend's parents of which he intends to marry. Meet The Parents is a funny film that delivers good laughs and it also has a good cast as well. Though since the release of Meet The Parents, there has been better comedies, Meet The Parents is still a comedy worth seeing. This is one of Ben Stiller's best films, and it's fun to see De Niro and Stiller clash on screen. Meet The Parents may one day be seen as a classic of the genre, and it surely has elements that makes it a classic. The film worth seeing and if you're wanting a good laugh, then this film is for you. Meet The Parents is the type of comedy that you don't watch often, so that the jokes are still relevant to you, and seem refreshing everytime you watch it. Because like I stated before, theres been better comedies since it's release, and it be a shame to watch this film to a point where its not funny for you anymore. Meet The Parents is for me, a film to watch once a year just to keep the jokes fresh and have a good time watching it. A worthy comedy to watch. A future classic for sure.
  • May 11, 2011
    A very good and funny film with good performances but leaves a lot to want.

Critic Reviews


Lisa Alspector
April 9, 2012
Lisa Alspector, Chicago Reader

Scenes that should have been uproarious are weaker than many of the movie's smaller moments, whose everyday humor isn't specific to the plot or characters. Full Review

Richard Schickel
August 15, 2008
Richard Schickel, TIME Magazine

Alas, poor Focker. He can't help himself. And we can't help ourselves from falling about, equally helpless, at this superbly antic movie. Full Review

Rick Groen
March 22, 2002
Rick Groen, Globe and Mail

When the script puts its faith in the audience, allowing us to find the laughs on our own, the film is irresistible, a bright lark. Yet when the writers panic, upping the antic volume and shifting int... Full Review

Peter Travers
June 4, 2001
Peter Travers, Rolling Stone

A hilarious hodgepodge of The In-Laws and Annie Hall, in which De Niro gives his best comic performance to date.

Stephanie Zacharek
January 1, 2000
Stephanie Zacharek, Salon.com

[Roach] does know how to stage discrete comic moments, taking mildly humorous nightmares and turning them into nicely wrought miniatures. Full Review

Peter Rainer
January 1, 2000
Peter Rainer, New York Magazine

I had a good time at Meet the Parents, even though the ratio of clinkers to yucks is disproportionately high. Full Review

Bob Graham
January 1, 2000
Bob Graham, San Francisco Chronicle

Robert De Niro and Ben Stiller give the comedy of disaster a nice little workout. Full Review

Eric Harrison
January 1, 2000
Eric Harrison, Houston Chronicle

Within its formulaic confines, the humor works uncommonly well from time to time. Full Review

Cody Clark
January 1, 2000
Cody Clark, Mr. Showbiz

It's funny. Really funny.

Lisa Schwarzbaum
January 1, 2000
Lisa Schwarzbaum, Entertainment Weekly

Meet the Parents doesn't sparkle like Vincente Minnelli's Father of the Bride. But with bubbly adult comedies at such a premium, it goes down like a flute of Champagne, leaving an aftertaste of giggles. Full Review

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Facts


    • Greg Focker: Bomb bomb bomb, bomb bomb bomb bomb, bomb bomb bomb bomb bomb bomb bomb bomb, what are you gonna do, arrest me?!
    • Greg Focker: How about you take those little sticks out of your hair and realise that I am a person with feelings.
    • Jack Byrnes: [in slow-mo] Spike the ball FOCKER!
    • Greg Focker: I'm gonna go upstairs and pay a visit to the shower fairy.
    • Jack Byrnes: I have nipples, Greg. Could you milk me?

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