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In this human-scale drama/comedy, a pair of Beverly Hills parents, Albert (Ryan O'Neal) and Lucy (Shelley Long) first come together as a couple interested in writing (she) and teaching (he), but Alber... read more read more...t's life takes an upscale turn when he starts both writing and then directing in Hollywood. As he becomes successful, Lucy is forced to burrow into her own writing in self-defense, and after her book is well-received, she is compensated a little for Albert's lack of attention and philandering. After Hollywood and its well-known flaws are sketched out in the increasingly strained marriage, the story reaches its primary focus: Albert and Lucy's 9-year-old daughter Casey (Drew Barrymore) talks to a lawyer because she wants to sue her parents for divorce. She gets no hugs or affection, and precious little attention, and she would prefer to go live with the maid. Given the parents' celebrity, the case receives wide press -- and the family begins to reconsider where it is going and why. Although a bit long, especially in the first half which wanders off course a little, the story is engaging enough (especially for Hollywood buffs) to balance any weaknesses. ~ Eleanor Mannikka, Rovi

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PG, 1 hr. 54 min.

Directed by: Charles Shyer

Release Date: September 28, 1984

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DVD Release Date: April 14, 2009

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  • September 18, 2011
    Love this! I wish kids really did take their parents to court for neglect.
  • January 18, 2011
    This fantastic drama gives you a new look on divorced families. It has a great cast, and it's also a bit funny too. I love it, and I highly recommend it.
  • December 29, 2007
    Movie about a little girl who sued her parents for divorce. Drew is very sweet.
  • August 7, 2007
    Was I the only one who thought this movie was annoying as hell? Yeah, we know Drew's parents tried to bilk her out of her E.T. millions. She's a big star now. Big deal.
  • April 17, 2007
    A very interesting film about a failed marriage and a girl who sues for divorce. Drew Barrymore, Ryan O'Neal and Shelley Long are great in this classic 1984 drama film.
  • November 22, 2006
    There is a scene where the car which Ryan O'Neal and Shelley Long are driving in is stolen. Instead of calling the police, they stand there and argue about wholse fault it is. Then there was a scene where Sharon Stone sang offkey while filming a movie within the movie, and ever... read moreyone acted as though there was no such thing as post production looping. What a stupid movie!

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Kyle Smith
April 29, 2009
Kyle Smith, KyleSmithOnline.com

There is a marvelous balance in that we have an equal rooting interest in each of the main characters. It isn't a mere satire. Full Review

Kevin Carr
April 28, 2009
Kevin Carr, 7M Pictures

I had much more sympathy for the child in the film and, sadly, she takes a back seat. Full Review

Jason McKiernan
April 23, 2009
Jason McKiernan, Filmcritic.com

We like these people even as they sink further and further into a black hole, and we root for their sensible, level-headed, uncommonly mature daughter to set them straight. Full Review

Pablo Villaca
February 22, 2004
Pablo Villaca, Cinema em Cena

Buscando as lágrimas ou o riso do espectador de forma maniqueísta, o filme chega a se confundir, tentando fazer graça com o sofrimento de uma criança.

March 26, 2009
Variety

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Roger Ebert
October 23, 2004
Roger Ebert, Chicago Sun-Times

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Janet Maslin
August 30, 2004
Janet Maslin, New York Times

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Dave Kehr
January 1, 2000
Dave Kehr, Chicago Reader

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Chuck O'Leary
August 31, 2005
Chuck O'Leary, Fantastica Daily

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Emanuel Levy
June 27, 2005
Emanuel Levy, EmanuelLevy.Com

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