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One man's sexual obsessions and emotional weaknesses are laid bare in this controversial drama. Jay (Mark Rylance) is a cold, emotionally distant man who abandoned his wife and children several years ... read more read more...ago andnow works in a nightclub. Jay enters into an affair with a married woman, an amateur actress named Claire (Kerry Fox), in which their emotional needs barely enter the picture; they meet once a week and have sex, talking as little as possible and parting ways once they're done. One week, Jay follows Claire after their weekly encounter and sees her meeting her husband Andy (Timothy Spall), a cheerful and good-natured cab driver. Jay becomes curious about Andy and strikes up an acquaintance with him; as they become friendly, Jay begins sharing with Andy the details of his affair with a married woman, without mentioning his lover's name. Claire has already begun moving away from her affair with Jay, and when she discovers that he's been meeting with her husband and sharing information about their relationship, she becomes understandably furious. Intimacy was the first English-language film for French director Patrice Chereau; the film received its North American premiere at the 2001 Sundance Film Festival. ~ Mark Deming, Rovi

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R, 1 hr. 59 min.

Directed by: Patrice Chéreau

Release Date: January 19, 2001

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DVD Release Date: January 6, 2004

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  • March 11, 2012
    Lust leads to intimacy. Intimacy leads to love. Love leads to turmoil. The sex scenes may be explicit and controversial but there is a lot more to this film than Mark Rylance's boudoir and Kerry Fox's booty.
  • September 6, 2009
    This is a surprisingly compelling film. Surprising, because a viewer may expect only to be titillated, or perhaps to be bored. Kerry Fox is alert and brilliantly self-contained as Claire, also hot in her nudity and sex scenes.
    French director Patrice Chéreau looks upon these cha... read moreracters with a complexity of vision and the candor available to an outsider. He understands both the value and danger of anonymous erotic encounters. Each succeeding sex scene in the film reveals less, physically, and more, emotionally, about the characters.
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    A somewhat difficult film to watch, as relationships and motivations were not always apparent. The sex was desperate and almost brutal and belied the title, as intimacy seemed to be the one thing missing from the affair. The lead Actress, Kerry Fox, while not a classic beauty, st... read moreill managed to command the screen. Mark Rylance brought a simmering rage to his character, as Jay, the obsessed lover. And Timothy Spall was quietly understated as the cuckolded husband who evoked pity more than empathy. It was good to see Marianne Faithful as the ditzy friend, Betty, who nevertheless causes Claire to face her dilemma with honesty.
  • June 4, 2011
    "Intimacy" is a pretty depressing picture. A guy named Jay is having an affair (well more like a Last Tango In Paris affair) with this mature woman named Claire. The meet, have small talk, and then have quick sex. How these two meet in the first place? and wouldn't Claire have an... read moreything to say Jay since they keep meeting every Wednesday afternoon? Later on Jay stalks and finds a bit about Claire's personal life (an amtaure theater actress) and meets even Claire's husband played by Timothy Spall.

    I knew a bit about Jay's personal life in this film. Two kids and an ex-wife, works as a head bartender, befriends a gay man who gives honest suggestions about Jay's personal affair, another friend who keeps crashing by his place, and Jay's frustration dealing with loneliness. This film wouldn't be so bad if their was some sort of connection between the main character Jay and Claire but there isn't really and left me with the feeling of hollowness. The raw sex becomes reptitive and dull since it's clear there is no real intimacy between the two lonely souls. Sad.
  • October 9, 2009
    My ridiculous decision...to form a one-night stand course of actions,break the norms by activating emotions and ultimately,reverse my fortune's bastardization by puking truthful sequences.What's the point from the beginning is there's no remorse,no maliciousness.Brilliant Dogme a... read morengles,I love you Kerry Fox....
  • July 6, 2008
    Good acting by a talented cast, but devoid of any lasting substance. Call me a prude, but I hate real sex in maistream films. It overpowers any plot points.
  • November 1, 2007
    Sexually explicit and engaging story about a love affair and the meaning of intimacy. Based on short stories by Hanif Kurieshi. This film has a lot of potential, I am not sure if it works entirely, but it is definitely interesting.

Critic Reviews


Eric Harrison
April 26, 2002
Eric Harrison, Houston Chronicle

There is an interesting story here, but the movie circles it at a distance. Full Review

Joe Baltake
March 22, 2002
Joe Baltake, Sacramento Bee

For all the sex and vicious psychological game-playing, Chereau's movie is strangely forgettable. Full Review

Steven Rea
January 17, 2002
Steven Rea, Philadelphia Inquirer

Its somber ruminations on passion and desire, marriage and aloneness, resonate with unmistakable force.

Stephen Hunter
December 28, 2001
Stephen Hunter, Washington Post

It does get at the messy totalitarianism of uninvited emotions, and in that sense, it's haunting.

Desson Thomson
December 28, 2001
Desson Thomson, Washington Post

Chereau ... creates a wonderful minor-chord symphony.

Steven Rosen
December 14, 2001
Steven Rosen, Denver Post

Despite the efforts of Kureishi, Chereau and co-screenwriter Anne-Louise Trividic to make us believe in its realism. Toward the end, there are too many speeches. Full Review

Tom Sime
December 13, 2001
Tom Sime, Dallas Morning News

It's when the actors are working at a deeper, wordless level that Intimacy really distinguishes itself. Full Review

Terry Lawson
November 30, 2001
Terry Lawson, Detroit Free Press

Intimacy is not afraid to say that life, like sex, is often messy and unfulfilling. Full Review

Edward Guthmann
November 16, 2001
Edward Guthmann, San Francisco Chronicle

[Chereau] has a loving eye, filming his actors with an intimacy that never exploits. Full Review

Glenn Lovell
November 16, 2001
Glenn Lovell, San Jose Mercury News

What makes it worth seeing isn't the sin but the scintillating acting. Full Review

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    • Jay: Hey, back there for a minute you looked really sad.
    • Claire: I don't know how to use my energy. But he does.

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